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The importance of facial expressions and nonverbal body language really stuck out to me during this experience, too. I never anticipated how profoundly I would miss the experience of exchanging polite smiles with strangers.

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Charles Darwin wrote, “The power of communication … has been of paramount importance in the development of man; and the force of language is much aided by the expressive movements of the face … We perceive this at once when we converse on an important subject with any person whose face is concealed.” The Expression of the Emotions in Man and Animals" (1872)

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Fascinating, thank you for this open and honest piece!

I would question the part about attractive teeth indicating someone’s ability to take care of themselves & details — there’s a lot of classism related with this. Something further to explore because lookism and classism are so interconnected…!

I’m putting together a panel on Unlearning Lookism for LTHJ Global which is a DEI (diversity equity & inclusion) firm. If you’d like to connect about speaking on this please 📧 me :)

Laura@lthjglobal.com and you can check out lthjglobal.com for context. Hope to speak with you!

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Solid Essay

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Mar 22, 2022
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To each their own?

Some reflections on mask wearing and appearance here, from several notable folks on Twitter during 2020:

https://twitter.com/MattZeitlin/status/1265051912140972034

https://twitter.com/ConnieSchultz/status/1271779459985805312

https://twitter.com/djrothkopf/status/1260738842782576640

https://twitter.com/elnathan_john/status/1262419640048812033

https://twitter.com/MrCamW/status/1288361985067737088

Yes, some of these people might well be saying such things to justify mask wearing - to themselves, or to others. For political or social or tribal reasons. And ... reckoning some fraction of these are likely sincere reflections.

One more take on that here:

https://www.gq.com/story/face-masks-hot

Again, you, I, or others may rightfully disagree with any of these observations. Just nerdily pointing out that "wearing a mask over one's mouth and nose = degrading someone's appearance/attractiveness" may not be a universal reaction.

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